Try your utmost to give satisfaction to your relatives, without being irritated by their conduct

If you seek God you must turn your back to all petitions of selfness. Be not annoyed at the circumstance of birth, which, with its social environs, has been determined by Fate and the chain of your Karma. Do you patiently consecrate yourself to God; bear with harassments and irritations; shoulder all responsibilities regarding parents; and in due course you will be released from the body and the hankerings connected thereto. When the hindrances are all removed you will be one with the eternal sea of rippling joy. He that is loved by God is faced with trying circumstances, which therefore should be accepted as all for your best. Try your utmost to give satisfaction to your relatives, without being irritated by their conduct, Recite the Holy Name whenever you can make time—preferably with a sense of His nearness, which is the means to enjoying His Presence.